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Sunday, February 12, 2012

2

I can hardly believe I am writing this.  Time really does fly.  Reegan is 2. (btw, I wrote this Friday night, Reegan's official bday was Sat).


I haven't done a great job the last few months updating her status, new things she's learning, and her likes/dislikes.  I think I may be the only person who really enjoys those posts :) 

I am currently at work, wishing I could be with Reegan at the exact moment that she was born 2 years (don't worry my patients are receiving fantastic care, but it's 3:45am and they are sleeping! )  Reegan officially entered the world at 4:21am, quicker than anyone anticipated, including the nurse and doctor!  Last year, I set my alarm at this time so I could sneak into her room to be with her...even though she was sleeping and had no idea I was there.  I was hoping to do that every year, but already I'm slipping. 
Its hard to put into words how incredible these 2 years have been. I love her, WE love her more than we ever expected!



Reegan is still a cuddler, most of the time. She can play by herself, but she wants someone to be right with her all the time. If we are in one room and she wants to go to another room, she tugs and pushes us and tells us to "go". Then leads us where she wants to go. She also likes for us to be sitting next to her on the floor while she plays. I find myself sneaking off when I have to go to the bathroom or get something out of another room. Sometimes she never notices I'm gone, other times I hear a "uh oh, mommy?". I love that she loves being with us and wants to read books on our laps more than anything, but I foresee this being a problem when baby #2 comes. I try hard not to get frustrated sometimes when she is my shadow and "helping" by moving everything I just put into the dishwasher. Or putting things in the trash for me, even when they are not trash. This is a lot better than a few years from now her not wanting to be seen with me (I vow not to let that happen, I mean I'm cool right???).


She sees everything that we do and then does it later. It is so crazy. I'll brush my teeth and she'll be standing next to my towel. Then she'll wipe her face on it and smile at me, it's almost like she is trying to show me what to do! On that same note, she loves to brush her teeth, but doesn't love for us to brush her teeth. I have gotten her to let me floss her teeth a couple of times. Her teeth are gorgeous with small spaces between the bottom teeth. The problem is that food gets stuck there already.


Reegan is already trying to grow up as fast as she can. She wants to do everything herself. I have to hide my water cup from her sometimes because she wants to drink out that and not her sippy cup. She does really well with it while she's drinking, but spills it in the process of trying to carry it around the house. She also takes off her socks any chance she can get. I can guarantee you, those socks are not going to be on when she gets up from her nap! She also takes off her pants sometimes. She can't get either one of them back on though...


She is great eater at home, still loves her veggies, in fact I think broccoli and peas are her favorite food. Whenever I ask her what she wants for lunch, she always says one or the other. Oh and she wants to dip all food into something. If anyone has anything that they are dipping, she wants to dip too. She will not eat chocolate, but loves french fries or tortilla chips. Those are reserved for when we go out to eat. However, this results in being all that she eats while we're out. We sometimes order her a meal and she never seems to eat more than a couple of bites.


She is very shy but seems to be coming out of her shell a little. She used to just stare at strangers when they would talk to her, but now she smiles or sometimes talks back. She loves to run and has started jumping. She has been trying to jump for months, but couldn't get both feet off the ground at one time. Now she can do it about half the time. Still likes to do somersaults and "exercise". At school (daycare) they have exercise time and she loves it. She loves to stretch and do sit-ups. Ah, my kinda girl!


Loves going to school. Jason usually drops her off, but this last week I did and she didn't look at me as she ran away to play. It made me kinda sad, but I'm thankful for this instead of one who cries and clings to my leg. As hard as it is for me to be away from her 2 days a week, it is so good for her. I think we will always put our kids in at least 1 day of daycare. I'm amazed at everything she learns while she is there and it sure wears her out! My one complaint is I wish they had cameras so I could watch what she does all day long. Its actually probably a good thing, that's all I would do :)


Reegan is in all 2T clothes, some of the pants are a little too big, but not bad. Poor baby has my body type so far, long torso, not so long legs (I was hoping she would get Jason's long legs). Wears a size 6 shoe. We go to the doctor on Wed and I am really excited to know how much she weights. She steps on our scale at home and it looks like she's around 26 lbs, but its hard to tell. I'm also curious what percentile she's in, she's always been pretty consistent in the 50th, so I'm sure its not too different now. I do however think she's tall for her age. She is the 2nd youngest kid in her class and probably one of the tallest. Not too surprising, look at her father...


She loves babies and is always pointing babies out to me. Sometimes these "babies" look to be older than she is...i'm telling you she is trying to grow up too fast. At the gym daycare I can often find her sitting with the lady with the baby and "helping" it play in the exersaucer or swinging in the swing. She's going to love this little one and be a little mama herself.

Alright, now that I described a perfect angel of a child, I'll tell you the not as positive. She is already a little bossy: telling the dogs when they need to go potty, trying to feed them 5 times a day (Bella would be in heaven if we really let her feed them this often...), and telling them "no" if they do something they are not supposed to. She knows what she wants and if she does not get what she wants, she cries. She has started covering her face when she cries and it is heartbreaking...for me, not so much Jason. She cries so hard that it is tough to get a word in to explain to her. Usually we just walk away from her (I told you earlier how she likes to be right with us) and that usually gets her to calm down and she follows us. Then I try to explain/rationalize. With a 2 year old...I know, it often doesn't work. We're still trying to figure out the best parenting strategy for this sensitive/hard headed one (I am reading a great book right now, Parenting with Love and Logic, I highly recommend it).




Big girl bed has been a smooth transition for us, it is kind of nice, when she wakes up in the morning or from nap she comes into our room and says "hi".  Then she gets into bed with us to cuddle for a little bit.  Its the perfect way to wake up, her holding my hand and laying on me!


Next up, potty training.  Is the time right?  I'm not sure, but we're thinking we will attempt it.  It would be so nice to have her out of diapers before the little one gets here.  I'm thinking I'll attempt for a week or so and if we're not making huge improvements I'll revisit it in 6 months.  We're also going to get her a real big-girl bed soon.  I know approximately what furniture I want for her new room, but I need to pick out bedding and we need to buy it all.  I'm hoping her new room will be ready by May.  Then she'll have 6 weeks or so to adjust before the next big adjustment!  Poor girl, her world is going to be rocked!!!  I think she'll love it though.

We love her and are so thankful that we were given the amazing and extremely tough role of being her parents.  2 years down and lots and lots more to come!!! 


3 comments:

McGinnis Family News said...

That was beautiful Jessica! It brought tears to my eyes! Happy birthday little girl! Your mama sure does love you!!!

Leah said...

Happy Birthday, Reegan!

This was such a sweet post. It really does seem just like yesterday that we were pregnant with Reegan and we were talking about your sonogram to find out her gender.

Looking forward to the reveal of baby 2.

Love and Logic is a great strategy! It is just hard to be 1 step ahead sometimes.

jmheine said...

Beautiful post, Jessica! She IS growing up way too fast, but there are so many great things ahead!
We took the Love and Logic parenting class - it was wonderful! I think our kids turned out pretty good! :)